I agree with you. I’m in that group of women. Albeit older than 38. I don’t need financial support and am living a great life. I’m physically attractive, cultured, and pretty intelligent… I think.. lol. I’ve realized that if the man I’m with isn’t my equal, in the important things, like financially, intellectually, emotionally (hopefully), and physical condition… it will not succeed. I’m hopeful that he is out there somewhere. Yes, I know it’s a tall order.